This Page is In Memoriam of our Members who have passed on to join their Confederate Ancestors
When Tomorrow Starts Without Me
When tomorrow starts without me,
and I'm not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me:
I wish you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too:
But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand.
And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye
For all my life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for,
So much left yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for a while,
I'd say good-bye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized,
That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,
He said, "This is eternity.
And all I've promised you.
Today your life on earth is past,
But here life starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day's the same way
There's no longing for the past.
You have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true.
Though there were times
You did some things
You knew you shouldn't do.
But you have been forgiven
And now at last you're free.
So won't you come and take my hand
And share my life with me?
So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart.
Author Unknown
STACY "WADE" HARRIS
May 5, 1934 - March 24, 2009
My heart is heavy as I send this message to inform you of the passing of one of our greatest defenders of our Confederate heritage and truly one of my best and dearest friends, Wade Harris, of Youngsville, NC.
Wade was a charter member of our Lee's Miserables POW reenactors and a member of our Pt. Lookout POW Descendants' Organization, for fifteen years! We could always count on Wade to "be there," honoring his Pt. Lookout ancestors during our Pilgrimages and at our meetings. He was a tremendous help to me over the years. It was always so nice for him to contact me, rather than me asking for help. He'd say, "What can 'I' do to help you at Pt. Lookout." It always 'made my day' when I saw him walk across those grounds. He was our oldest, yet most active POW reenactor! He led by setting an example. He was an inspiration to all of us!
I will always remember his enthusiasm, his smile, his voice, his love of our heritage. Wade drove up from NC to Pt. Lookout, MD, with his family and one of his best friends, Linwood O'Neil, for one of our first work weekends to start building Confederate Memorial Park. He worked right along with the rest of our crew. We have fond memories of Wade on that weekend, as every time you'd turn around, Wade was searching where he misplaced his cup of coffee. He played and sang for us that night, around the campfire...then we hopped in the back of Linwood's truck and went hunting for Pt. Lookout ghosts.
I was privileged to be joined by Wade, along with 15,000 other dedicated Southerners, as we marched with our flags on the capitol of SC to save the battle flag atop its dome. We spent many days at Pt. Lookout in the hot sweltering sun, monsoons (including a tropical storm), blusterous winds, as well as freezing cold. We have also battled mud, protestors, mosquitoes, ticks, yankees, and the Veterans Adm! And, we have bowed our heads in humble admiration for the sufferings of our ancestors who were imprisoned there. We held hands as we closed our descendants meetings as he sang "Dixie." Wade was instrumental in raisings funds to purchase and have placed the 1st National CSA Flag Pole on the grounds of Confederate Memorial Park. He made a CD to honor our ancestors imprisoned in Pt. Lookout, with all the proceeds going toward CMP. He also traveled to give Pt. Lookout programs to various organizations, educating people on the history of Pt. Lookout Prison Camp. It was our honor to have Wade sing "I'm A Good Ole Rebel" as the prisoners' flag was raised on "CMP Dedication Day, September 2009" and also end our program, singing "Dixie."
Wade was a family man who taught his children and grandchildren to not only honor and respect those who have gone on before us, but to do the same for those here today. His children/grandchildren can still be heard saying "Yes mam and No sir" to their elders. Wade had recently lost his wife/best friend and had grieved so much for her. It was as if he had lost his will to remain here with us, for wanting to be with her. Now....once again, they walk together. As you read this, he has already obtained his Rebel Gray Wings and he's probably singing Martha a love ballad. And after he gets through 'courting her,' you can bet he'll be shaking hands with Gen. Lee and giving his Pt. Lookout ancestors, John & Wade Harris, a good ole Rebel Yell!
Wade was a giant among big people and leaves shoes that can not be filled.
My love and condolences to his family.
Patricia Buck
Past President
PLPOW Descendants Org.
Wade Harris Memorial Service Pictures
JOE DUNBAR
I am very sad to report the loss of one our beloved
DOPL members and Vice Chair of CMPI,
Joseph Dunbar.
It is with deep regret that I inform you of the passing of CMP Vice Chair Joseph C. Dunbar at the age of
65. Joe died on Jan 29 at the Charlotte Hall Veterans Home of kidney failure.
Those of you CMP and Old Brunswick SCV Camp members that were at the May 2007 work weekend
May recall meeting Joe for the first time. He was the man that stopped to ask if we could use a tractor
with a front-end loader and implements. At the time we were hard at work with hand shovels and
wheelbarrows. He returned 20 minutes later not only with the equipment but also with liquid
refreshments and additional people to lend a hand.
From that day forward, he was a devoted and resourceful asset to CMP. Not only did he obtain two riding
lawn mowers but he also kept the grass cut. Local residents told me that Joe could be seen cutting the
grass before sunrise. He recruited people in the community to maintain the mowers and do the trimming as
well as help with much of the labor needed during construction. He was renowned for promoting our
mission and purpose throughout St. Mary’s County. CMP benefited greatly from his countless friends
and associations with businesses in the county. Ever since Joe’s involvement with CMP, there has not
been one incidence of vandalism or theft at the park. It was Joe that provided the hogs and cookers for
two BBQs - one for a work weekend and one for the evening before the dedication.
Some of the other donations that Joe was able to obtain include granite dedication plates, flag pole donor
plates and shrubbery.
The Maryland Division SCV obtained a memorial membership from SCV National HQ and sent in a
cash donation in his name to CMP. Local SCV camps Bowling and Camalier attended his funeral in
uniform. The family published his involvement with CMP in his obituary.
We flew the battle flag at half mast for a week in his memory and service.
CMP has lost a great asset and I have lost a great friend.
Jim Dunbar, Chairman CMP
Seth David Latham
We have lost another member of our Descendants Organization. Seth David Latham, from Belhaven, NC has lost a courageous battle with cancer.
Seth had been a member since 1997 and he always kept his dues paid on time with a smiley face attached to his renewal form. He was always quick to praise our organization and its membership as well as our endeavors to build CMP. For years, he had wanted to make the trek to one of our Pilgrimages, but was only able to attend this past September. The reason why? Maybe he knew that he'd never get another chance "and" he was going to raise the TX flag in CMP for another one of our members (Mary Looney) from TX, who had recently passed away from cancer. As I called out the names of those raising each of the state flags, when I got to the TX flag and as Seth was walking up to raise it, I said, "This one is for you, Mary," and it made him happy to hear this. Seth was a tremendous heritage fighter that will be solely missed. Although he was taking chemo treatments, he was out in a tropical storm with high winds and torrents of rain at Point Lookout last September, to honor his Confederate ancestor who was imprisoned there, as well as to honor a fellow member. He was a brave modern day soldier! In the attached picture you can see the rain on his uniform along with his Pt. Lookout medal, as he looks upward to see his ancestor's battle flag being raised in CMP.
Two of my fondest memories of Seth:
In 1998, Mary & her husband drove up from TX to NC, to honor her Pt. Lookout ancestor and his brother. The two brothers were buried way out in the country of rural NC. Seth had the new Confederate headstones delivered to his place in NC and had installed the markers over their graves for Mary, when she arrived. Seth did a wonderful job of helping to arrange this ceremony (was also MC for the headstone dedications) of which Mary was very appreciative. She always referred to him as a Nathan Bedford Forest look-a-like, with actions that matched. It was a hot August day, as we stood there with our Pt. Lookout wreath, knee deep in a bean field, to give tribute to these brave Confederate soldiers. Afterwards, it had been arranged to enjoy cold watermelon.
The following month in September, I had a memorial service for my Pt. Lookout ancestor. Seth came up from NC to be in the honor guard. It was another very hot day...so hot, one of our youngest flag bearers passed out. Afterwards, when I wrote the article about the day's event of honoring a hero of Pt. Lookout, Seth sent me an email and told me that I had made him cry... "again." He was a passionate man who cared deeply about the scarifies endured by the POWs of Pt. Lookout.
Today, Seth has already met up with Mary and I'm sure they're having a grand time swapping stories "with" their Pt. Lookout ancestors who went on before them.
...Patricia Buck
past President, PLPOW
Grace Pratt
She was “our” Amazing Grace and will be solely missed!
It is with a sadden heart I report that our Blockade Runner & Flag Bearer, Grace Pratt, passed away after a courageous battle with cancer on November 29th, one day after her 73rd birthday. She is survived by 7 children and 19 grandchildren. Grace had always “been there” for us when we needed someone to raise and take down our battle flags in the Point Lookout cemetery as well as in Confederate Memorial Park. She did this on the good days as well as the bad (even snow). At the appointed time, she would tenderly take down our ancestors’ battle flag, even in the rain, lay it out to dry, to mail to the recipient. She took on this duty, without even having an ancestor buried in Pt. Lookout…a responsibility that a compassionate woman did in the face of controversy! She also would bake a cake for our Lee's Miserables POW re-enactors to enjoy while in camp portraying their ancestors, during our Pilgrimages. She not only picked up trash in the cemetery and in CMP, but she also was there on our first big work weekend, driving a lawn mower to haul "stuff” as we labored to start construction to build CMP… Jan/Feb. “Parapet” 2008
Grace at the first big work weekend in CMP.
LM Dan Kesler & Steve DeFreytas in background
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Grace Pratt Receives Kath Davidson Award June 8, 2002
I’d like to thank a very special lady for all that she has done for us here in the Point Lookout Cemetery…. Ms Grace Pratt.Most of you know the story behind our battle with flying our ancestors’ flag over their mass grave here in the Point Lookout Cemetery. Rick Griffin has tirelessly gone to court several times trying to regain our Constitutional right to fly the Confederate Battle Flag. Last summer we were granted this right to do so for a few months, before they took this privilege from us again. They put restrictive hours on us from 9am until 6 pm, making it near impossible for someone to take on this job. Many of us made countless phone calls and even house visits, seeking someone who would help us, so we could fly the flag here in the cemetery. Time after time we were turned down because of the hours or that it was just too inconvenient for them. One "man" who lives very near by, "with" an ancestor buried right here in this cemetery and it wouldn’t have been too much trouble for him to do this for us... refused "because" he didn’t want to "get involved" in our flag controversy! I’m sure his ancestor was turning in his grave. Then, Grace Pratt was contacted.
Ms Pratt accepted and carried out a privileged duty that a man wouldn’t even take on. Grace either walked or rode her bike to and from the cemetery every morning and every afternoon to put up and take down our flag. This wasn’t just when she felt like it. This wasn’t just when the sun was shining. This was done EVERYDAY, whether the weather was bad or whether it was good...and this included when it snowed.
Grace doesn’t even have ancestors buried here in the cemetery ... but she loves these men and she loves upholding our Southern heritage. I could tell that it truly bothered her when she’d report that the cemetery was in shambles, that moles that tunneled up the grounds, that the flood lights didn’t burn, or if the grass wasn’t cut until it was over a foot high. And the sincerity in her voice when she asked.. "Why does the sign on the gate read "Point Lookout Confederate Cemetery" when the Confederates can't have their Confederate flag? Ms Pratt not only flew THEIR flag for them and us, she cared for the cemetery as well. The Vet. Adm. does pay someone to care for the cemetery. But, it’s not Grace’s paid job from the Vet. Adm. During the Fall, we had allot of rain and high winds at The Point. The Veteran Administration’s table had been knocked over several times to the point that its door broke and wouldn’t close and the cemetery was filled with scattered VA papers, sticks and limbs. A lot of the papers had blown through the fence and into the woods. Did the Vet. Adm. come down and tidy up? No..., but Grace did. She picked up all the papers, took them home, wiped them off, straightened them out, stapled them and bounded them together. Then she put them back in the book and secured them with rubber bands. She then returned the papers to the cemetery. Grace Pratt has labored to honor the Point Lookout soldiers in this cemetery. Here’s a fine lady who has worked to care for the soldiers’ final resting place far beyond the call of duty.
The Point Lookout POW Descendants Organization would like to present Ms Pratt with the Kath Davidson Blockade Award. Kath Davidson, the Blockade runner, was a lady who was imprisoned in Point Lookout for aiding the Southern Cause. She was captured just down the road from the Point Lookout Cemetery, in Leonardtown. If Kath Davidson was here today, she’d have flown that Confederate Battle Flag in this cemetery. But, Kath has long since been gone, but I believe that the spirits of these men buried in this cemetery sent Grace Pratt to us. Grace ran the federal judicial blockade on many occasions with the battle flag. And, she ran it everyday until the judge made that final call and intercepted. Grace is truly our Kath Davidson of yester-year! Thank you and we love you!
-by Patricia Buck President, PLPOW Descendants Org.
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